So very sorry to hear of mom's passing. Our deepest sympathy to all of your family. I hope that the last days will be forgotten and the healthy, family memories will be remembered instead.
It's been quite a while but Phil and I are now snowbirds--although he still continues to coach the softball team at Hills with Joe Leicht! My memories of IH are cherished ones--we all (including your mom) had such fun and good times. She was always part of the action--good and bad. She was loved by all and more importantly trusted.
Stay well and again my deepest sympathy.